i bet everione have seen tis pic hor :0
photo taken frm yahoo .
i think hor , partly is our fault . yes the viewers fault :X
because onli tis kind of news interest us , and
the paparazzi have to spy on those celebrities and come
out with these news .
is like ppl's problem ma , u care so much for wat sia .
i swear i wouldt be a paparazzi lor ~
and and idk if is true , jl told me tt
the girl hu kena molest during the 2010 count down one .
is the MEDIA hire ppl to go put up a show so tt
they can sell the news .
wah , if it is real , i think they veri jian lor .
but nvrmind "ren zai zuo , tian zai kan"
u all will have ur retribution one dae de ,
"san you san bao e bao you e bao , bu shi bu dao er shi ling cheng wei dao" :0
so becareful hor ~~ suay suay u tmr kena strike by thunder .
luckily the movie "zuo ren"
if not there will be a lot of problem liao ._.
hmm , izzit "got money , got honey" or nan ren bu huai nv ren bu ai ~
but i think nan ren bu huai nv ren bu ai more true .
if u compare a veri veri good guy , don't smoke , don't gamble ,
never go geylang before one to a ah beng , hu smoke, gamble .
i think ah beng will jio girl more easily than tt good guy lor .
cuz ah beng can do smth tt will surprise u and most
of the typical girls like surprises mah ~
somemore ah beng like more "brave" than goodguy .
and good guy will restrict tis and tt so sian -.-
although ah beng don't really mean wat they said ,
but wat they said was wat the girl like ma .
but then goodguy hor , damn serious bout wat they sae lor .
k is a good thing , but then all they sae de thing is like so
sian , and u think the girl wanna hear wat he sae meh .
like DUH ~ no :X
and is like ren sheng zi you yi ci ma ~
of course u wan a more interesting life rite ?
k maybe some of them like those peaceful de ~
It’s media heyday whenever a scandal breaks out. From Bill Clinton to Tiger Woods, we’ve seen how the media thrives on celebrities’ scandals, turning what is essentially a domestic issue between these men and their wives, into the centre of everybody’s attention. As a fellow celebrity, I can understand the pressure that comes from the media and public. There is already the constant need to manage other people’s expectations, judgements and perceptions, whether it’s for the work we do, or the more personal details such as the person we’re dating, the place we’re getting married, or simply the way we look, that is amongst many other things. What more in instances where values and morality are being called to question?
Frustration? Exasperation? Nonchalence? I don’t know.
Whatever it is, I’m not envious.
Having said that, I don’t believe I have a right to pass any judgement on Jack. Neither am I taking any sides, because besides being a celebrity, I am also a woman.
I know what it feels like to have to personally deal with “the other woman”, no children involved; it’s complicated, it’s heart-wrenching and there will always be a lot of self-deception and delusions that things will change when they usually don’t.
I’ve also had close mates who become “the other woman”; they go through the same pain of loving someone who will not able to commit to them, with a constant fear of consequences and thoughts of ruining someone else tugging at their conscience. Yet for some reason, it’s hard to let go.
I realise that it’s where you’re standing when you’re looking at the issue that would influence your perceptions.
Having said that, right now I believe we are merely bystanders either willing or unwillingly (since there’s only one broadsheet in Singapore) dragged into a voyeuristic medium. Sure, we are entitled to watch on with aversion and condemnation, understanding or sympathy, whatever the emotional attachment that comes forth. But the way I see it, any verbal participation just wouldn’t add value nor improve the existing conditions for the parties involved.
Why then do we want to be so quick to impose our opinions on others if it does them no good and offers nothing for the betterment of our own and their lives?
Perhaps it’d be more helpful to walk away from this scandal with an important lesson, one that we do not need to experience for ourselves to learn.
-- so chim de english comfirm not i write de mah ,
tis is from joanne peh (:
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